Loopy loop!!

Hi everyone,

So you must be wondering why this title. So loops are a very big part of human life, in our whole lifetime we go through a lot of loops, some which are natural & others which are self made. Yes you heard me right! Humans do make loops for themselves again and again. Natural ones can come and go but let me tell you self made loops are difficult to break.

To help you understand I will share my personal experience with loops! So since I was a teenager I had past traumatic issues, and especially with trusting people or with your surrounding environment or might be because of my early relationships. Since then I always used to end up in a toxic relationship, not that the other person was always wrong but due to certain circumstances things used to end up bad. I was afraid of getting into another or I used to self doubt that okay why all this happened to me?

So, I finally decided to take therapy. And you won’t believe what I came to know. My therapist told me that due to past traumas and past experience sometimes people are used to getting in that same environment again and again, because their mind works that way, they will either find the same toxic similar person for the next relationship or will themselves create such a critical situation which will end up being bad. I realized that yes I was myself making these loops…… Again & again & again unknowingly. I used to either choose a toxic partner or create a situation which will result in fights or bad endings.

I was surprised to know that because my real nature is very kind, caring & loving. How can someone like me end up in this? But it’s the subconscious mind sometimes which unknowingly creates the same situation and if you will never realize it you will never get out of these loops.

So the moral is that if you are constantly getting yourself into the same trouble or in a toxic relationship or bad job choices or anything…… Just sit down and think why’s this happening again? I hope this would help you guys to get a clear head.

See you again…..

Love, laugh & Live ❤❤❤

Incomplete….

Have you ever felt incomplete?

Like you have everything in this world still you feel incomplete. Just like you are drowning in the water in which you know you can swim! It’s weird sometimes to feel this way, when you don’t know the answers, when you don’t know why or what, when you just want to just stop everything and find that one thing that will give you peace.

People with a family, people in love, people who’re successful & independent, people who’re happy being single. But no matter what sometimes at some point in your life nothing is enough. Sleepless nights when you want to sleep but just feel incomplete, thinking about why? Feels like there are still a lot of questions to be asked, a lot of puzzles to be solved, alot of knowledge to be gained, and a lot of self acceptance to be done. Maybe then finally one can feel complete. There is no better way to feel complete than to know yourself, what you want, what you need, what you feel, who you really are?

Are you still blinded by the silk scarf of the people around you, do you still need to pretend? Are you ready to live with this Incompleteness Or you are finally ready to accept yourself ?

Do you have answers or do you feel the same do comment below.

Love. Live. Laugh

Tears

Tears are just clear liquid secreted by the tear glands in our eyes, right?

For a human tears are a sign language for expressing emotions, sometimes sad, sometimes happy or maybe angry / frustrated. They speak without saying a word. Some of us cry in silence and some on others shoulder. But either way it always makes us feel better, as if a hurricane inside you finally came to an end. Isn’t it? Some people say that you cry a night before and you will wake up beautiful tomorrow… Hahaha funny right!

Lost someone, found someone, miss someone, afraid of someone, happy for someone tears are always there as your partner.

Have you ever cried so much that your eyes become dry and still wants to cry. Have you ever experienced having a bad day, and you holding yourself up but when just one person come by and ask you , are you ok? Your tears roll down the cheeks the next minute. I prefer crying alone, in my room. I try to hold up so much but sometimes I just want to cry so bad that I just want to sink in to that pool of tears. Sometimes every tear have a realisation that makes you tough so that from next time you just don’t waste them for something that never mattered to you.

Also also apart from being emotional guys be hygienic to avoid eye infection because I hope no one likes unnecessary crying. Haha….

Share your tear stories with me, and tell me your views about your tear theories.

Keep connected for next blog post!

LOVE YOU ALL 💕

Importance of FESTIVALS

Importance of FESTIVALS

Festivals are important for everyone, it’s a way to bring the whole family all together. Every festival is beautiful either it’s Navaratri Or Eid Or Christmas or any other. I remember as I child I used to get so excited when festivals were around. We used to get school holidays to spend these auspicious days with our family, my mother used to make delicious cuisines. I am a Maharashtrian so puran poli was and is still my favourite. My dad used to bring flowers and other decorative items, my grandma used to prepare for puja and my grandpa used to give us chocolates. That’s how I remember my childhood, sweet, happy, exciting.

Now things have been changed, I don’t even remember when was the last time I was that happy whenever a festival was around. Seems like this worlds is dissolving in corporate jobs where there are no holidays for your happiness, no time to spend with your family, no delicious food. It’s tough to think what the next generation will learn? Will they ever know the importance of these festivals? Will they ever be able to feel that happiness?

I miss my family every festival. I miss how I used to celebrate, I wish there was no such corporate bars between me and my happiness. I wish the Indian culture we are so proud about can still be embraced by us.

If you have any such story that you wanna share! Comment below.

Spencer’s retail store ❤

So so excited to announce that Spencer’s brings you the biggest hypermarket in Lucknow that will now provide you with the the necessary things from grocery to other essential household products. Spencer’s is known for providing best quality to the customers along with best deals and offers that will amaze you.
Be it fruits, vegetables, grains, dairy, house cleaning etc. Now you don’t have to worry about anything just visit the very new Spencer’s store at Crown’s mall near BBD. The store is set to open on 5th of December. As an opening offer you can also give a miss call at 7848066666 and get a 50 rs gift voucher.
Other offers that you may like are:
1. Shop for 1999/- and get borosil set free
2.And a brosil 12 pc dinner set on purchase of 3999/- and more.
You even get 1 kg onion for 29/- on shopping of 499/- & 1 kg sugar on 999/- there are many such offer to avail under one roof.

Go visit now and fill your home with amazing household products also you can shop for apparels and your favorite food products❤❤
The store is opening on 5th of December at Crowns mall Lucknow……. Hurry up be the early customer to avail the offer now.

WAYS TO STYLE YOURSELF DURING WINTERS! ❤❤

Hi fellas! I am back with this new blog i hope you all must be doing good. So this blog is about how can you style yourself during winters. Most of the time we buy clothes and we don’t even know how to pair them up or style yourself to stand out! no worries this blog will surely help you to not only decide what to wear but also to decide what to buy during winter season.

1.The Essential Overcoat

If your style speaks elegance, class and comfortable clothing then overcoats for women are the best. It’s time to shop and upgrade your wardrobe with these trending overcoats. Play with colors, pick an offbeat one for a unique look. Remember it’s the coat which redefines your entire look when it comes to winters. Be wise about the overcoat you pick for a party or casual occasion as it can make a look or break one too.

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2. Cozy Sweaters

From romantic designs, different colors like red, pink, blue, black, etc., to the proper cream cableknits, over sized and classic turtlenecks, shop the knitwear which will keep you bundled up throughout fall and winter. Explore new and interesting trends, or invest in an exceedingly forever piece which will keep you cozy forever.

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3. Scarfs or Mufflers.

Simply put, scarves do a superb job of protecting your neck. A thick wool scarf can keep your neck warm on a chilly Winter morning. They also add a new look to your whole outfit.

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      LOOK GOOD. BE CONFIDENT. SHOP MORE. SMILE MORE 🙂 ❤

Ways To Wear Formal Wear!! <3

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Hello fellas, today I am gonna talk about formal wear. A business formal dress code enhances the professional image of your workplace environment and your personal brand. You should always remember that the clothing should be crisp, neat, pressed and never wrinkled, to project a professional, “business formal” image. Torn, dirty, and unmatched clothing is unacceptable. A dress pant or skirt with matching jacket is mostly considered a business formal for women. Depending on the season, you may or may not add the jacket to your formal outfit.

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Skirts should always sit at or just above the knee. A collared blouse or dress-material top is recommended, and should either be tucked in or fall just below your waistline. Shoes, boots, flats, open-toed and closed-toed shoes in a leather or dress material are appropriate and should be clean and polished.

So, now lets talk about the color…… so mainly dark colors or black alternatives like grey are mostly preferred for a formal pant or the entire suit. You should always check the material or fabric of the formal dress so that you can feel comfortable in that while you sit or travel. Formals are like a first impression in front of any person as it shows your personality and how neat and tidy you are.

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So beside formal office wear you can wear formals in parties, weddings etc. You can do a lot of experiment  with your formal wear. Just pair it with a bralet or a tube top and put on a Jacket if needed. Formals can be fun and a big image builder in front of a second person. The brands I prefer for formals are Cadani Italy.  Hope this information will be helpful when you next attend any office meeting or party . ❤

 

LOOK GOOD, BE CONFIDENT, SHOP MORE, SMILE MORE 🙂

A DREAM TO TRAVEL AROUND THE WORLD ! <3

DREAM TO TRAVEL AROUND THE WORLD

 

Since I was a child I love travelling. I have a blurred image of my first trip to Nainital and Nepal, I was just 3 or 4 years old at that time. I still remember my parents holding my hands and my little feet walking around here and there. Now as I am a grown-up young girl and I have different ambitions to fulfil, but I can’t help falling in love with travelling. I know it’s not possible to always take out time and explore places but to be true I just want to earn to travel because travelling makes me feel happy, it makes me feel free and fresh and every time I travel I meet a new and better version of me and that feeling is so good that I just can’t explain in words. I don’t know I have this thing inside me that if I am at some place I just have to explore it. Just like people are book worm I am a travelling worm. ❤ I am kind of obsessed with travelling and with the thought of travelling. I love mountains more than beaches, what about you guys ?? After travelling I came to know about how much diverse is our surroundings from small small plants to large palm and pine trees. Now my feet want to explore more and they are craving for more. They want to feel the grass as well as the sand under them. Well that’s my experience do share your travelling experience down in the comments section . 🙂

LOOK GOOD, BE CONFIDENT, SHOP MORE, SMILE MORE, TRAVEL MORE

MUST WEAR COLORS IN WINTERS

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Hi guys, so today I am gonna talk about some must wear colours in winters. Winters are all about layering and still look good. So to enhance your winter look you can try some bright and dark colours or some pastels. Deep necks, round necks, high necks, etc. there are so many varieties to add a fun, bold, classy look to your winters.

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Winter colors are vibrant, dramatic and sophisticated. Sometimes blacks and whites take over our wardrobes and they can make us look boring and colourless and dull. Black on black outfits with the occasional splash of grey can easily become our go-to when we lack inspiration. So I will suggest some colours like Yellow, red, dark blue, dark olive green and pastel pink or blue. These colours will not only give you a younger and lively look but your photographs will also look vibrant and interesting !!

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So go and shop for some vibrant and bold colors and rock your winter look. As when you look good you feel good ❤

LOOK GOOD, BE CONFIDENT, SHOP MORE, SMILE MORE  🙂

 

CLASSY AND BOLD HIGH NECKS

HIGH NECK SWEATER

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Hello fellas, so my this blog is about high neck sweaters or tops. High neck sweaters are like my all time favorite, they give me a bold and classy look. High neck with dark colours like olive green, black, purple, dark blue, red etc. are just perfect for night parties or day time too. There are days when you don’t want much skin show but still wanna look sexy and classy, high necks are just perfect for those days.

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You can even pair it up with accessories like loop earrings or some jhumkas they will enhance the whole look. High necks also enhance your whole facial look if you wanna show off your makeup. You can pair up your high neck with High waist jeans and Boots. You can buy high necks from many online sites like MYNTRA, AMAZON, LULU & SKY, FLIPKART etc. or you can just visit by your nearest local market…. whatever you like <3.

So just add high necks to your closet and look your best even in your worst days.

LOOK GOOD, BE CONFIDENT, SHOP MORE, SMILE MORE 🙂